Am I happy? Truly happy?

"Yes, I AM HAPPY."

The fact that I am happy or not, doesn't depend on anyone, but on me. "I am the only person upon which my happiness depends. I make the choice to be happy in each situation and in each moment of my life. If my happiness were to depend on other people, on other things or "Everything that exists in this life changes continually: humans, wealth, my body, the climate, pleasures, etc. I could enumerate an infinite list... "Over my life I have learned a couple of things:

I decide to be happy and the rest is a matter of "experiences or circumstances;" like helping and understanding, accepting, listening, consoling; and with him, I have lived and practiced this many times... Happiness will always be found in forgiveness and in loving yourself and others, It's not the responsibility of others to make me happy... Everybody also have their "experiences or circumstances."

I love him and he loves me, often inspite of his circumstances and of mine. "He changes, I change, the environment changes, everything changes. Having forgiveness and true love, and observing these changes, that can be, big or little, but always happen, we must face them with the love that exists in each one of us. If the two of us love and forgive each other, the changes will only be "experiences and circumstances" that enrich us and give us strength. Otherwise we would only be "living together." For some, divorce is the only solution; (... in reality it is the easiest...) To truly love, is difficult. It is to forgive unconditionally, to live. To take the "experiences and circumstances" as they are. Facing them together and being happy with conviction.

There are those who say: "I cannot be happy because I am sick, because I have no money, because it's too cold, because they insulted me, because someone stopped loving me, because someone didn't appreciate me!" But what you don't know is that you can be happy even though you are sich, whether it is too hot, whether you have money or not, whether someone has insulted you or someone didn't love you, or hasn't velued you.

BEING HAPPY is an attitude about life and each one of us must decide!

BEING HAPPY, depends on you!